|Are you in the ‘therapist’ relationship in your relationships?
Do you find that when the going get’s tough, your peep’s come to you?
Healers and seekers can often find themselves in that kind of situation in friendships, or even in romantic partnerships.
I myself, find myself in these types of friendships often. I find it very rewarding and fulfilling to have friendships where I can be leaned on to process difficult issues and to hold space while my friends navigate what they’re going through.
This is fabulous until you consider balance!
There can be 2 BIG elements of imbalance when experiencing the majority of relationships from this angle.
1) The friend that you are being therapist to, might not be able to be that therapist friend back to you.
While you’ve been ever present for your friend, they may not have that same capacity to be your therapist.
Friends that need a lot of support may not have the ability to reciprocate. And that is ok! And you get to want and have friends that can hold space for you in that way.
2) Don’t be surprised when your chips are down, the friend you are therapist to is miffed by your ‘neediness’.
When the tables turn, your friend may feel like you’ve suddenly shown up in a way that is unacceptable to them.
If you have divine balance in a friendship, that is wonderful, but if you don’t, consider that the relationship balance maybe an inside job.
What to do: Acknowledge your unmet need and really take an inventory on what you would like to draw forth in a friendship and then watch the magnificence of the universe deliver your sacred balanced dynamic to you.
This shift could take place in the original relationship, or you might meet the perfect counterpart to lean on. Someone who has different insight than you. One that opens your heart, and feels like a safe place to land.
You deserve it!
Your heart is very complex! When one spends any amount of time in reflection about the heart, it becomes clear that there is a LOT more going on then pumping blood through the body. As essential as that act is, it’s easy to overlook the power and potency of the heart and its involvement or lack of involvement with your daily activities.
Cool fun fact! The heart’s electromagnetic field is 5,000 times more powerful than the brains electromagnetic field! Isn’t that incredible!?
The heart is also comprised of energetic layers that are in conscious coordination with the way your see the world. It’s inextricably linked to your thoughts and beliefs about EVERYTHING!!!!
Here are 4 of the primary layers or energetic levels of the heart:
Physical – This level includes all of the thoughts and patterns of belief associated with your physical body, about how healthy your physical body is, how capable, balanced and able you are.
Mental – This layer is associated with all of your thoughts and beliefs about your capacity to love and live life to the fullest, your passion for the life you live and any restrictions to your worthiness and success in your life’s pursuits.
Emotional – This level is the gateway to understanding you and you capacity to give and receive love in all kinds of relationships.
Spiritual – This layer is the portal to your greater more expanded soul self. It provides access to tapping into your multi-dimensional gifts and skills. The skills that connect you to your true purpose and mission in life.
My mission is to offer you, my people, greater access to the broader benefits that come with tapping into your hearts many layers of powers! To connect you the life your soul came here to live to the fullest!
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What is about toxic relationships that keeps us stuck in the same old cycles? What will it finally take to finally take the next step towards freedom?
Toxic relationships. Freedom now or later?
Feel like you’re walking on egg shells?
A toxic relationship brings the worst out in you and the other person.
It depletes you and negatively impacts your sense of sanity, confidence, and self worth.
So, what keeps us in toxic relationships? The answer is simple. We’re still getting something out of. It may be a small missing piece lesson or a deep foundational soul lesson.
Whatever the reason. There is no judgement here. I’m here to support you with getting really honest with yourself.
By owning your side of the pattern of disfunction, you re-claim your power to decide differently.
You get to decide the fate of your relationships!
And know, you’re not alone. I myself have had to heal my toxic relationships! I had to to take an honest look at the kind of relationships I was drawing to myself. It wasn’t easy, but I was determined and I’m on the other side of toxic relationships now. I can spot them a mile away!
I was able to disrupt that old stressful pattern.
I learned to honor the relationships for the lesson’s they proved to be for me. And once I was ready to move another direction, I made that shift.
I didn’t do it alone. I got help.
Our souls grow through experience! Experience provides us the knowledge base that can only come from going through it.
The silver lining is, there is a limit to what each person is willing to tolerate.
I advocate for making the best decisions for you. That being said, sometimes your safe decision is the next person’s reckless decision.
This leads me to a point about your inner guidance and your comfort zone. We live in an era where there are a lot of rules to the social game. However, rules are simply opinions that a large group of opinion adopt and run with.
You on the other hand have your very own guidance system hardwired within you. That is your soul mind network has access to everything knowable. To access it, all that is needed is to go within to connect.
In times of confusion which is an inevitable by-product of a toxic relationship, you can gain access to the exit strategy or the way to shift your thought process to gain the lessons learned and move into the next phase of your life.
If you have any doubt about that, just keep in mind that I myself extricated myself from a toxic relationship where I was stalked for over a year.
It can be done and the choice is yours.
You are worth it.
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|Have you ever pondered the notion that your body is a highly advanced biological, energetic, soul instrument or technology?
It’s a discrete and hyper- sensitive transmitter and receiver of intelligent energy that your MindBody network innately knows how to operate.
Each thought, emotion and experience you have, comes into your MindBody network through this tech with the sophistication of a supercomputer who’s data is sorted and coordinated seamlessly with all aspects of self.
In general terms, your MindBody network transmits and receives messages to and from your
And that is just the tip of the iceberg of what your MindBody does for you every millisecond of every moment, and on and on.
To me this is what makes being a spiritual being living a human experience so filled with magic, miracle and opportunities for mastery!
It may be fun to consider that all the gadgets and technology that you pay hundreds and thousands of dollars for the newest versions of don’t hold a candle to the gadgetry that you have hard wired within you.
So, how does one access this inner tech? I’m glad you asked!
By going within.
Spiritual hypnotherapy, my brand of hypnotherapy is another way to quickly and powerfully access the magnificent inner gadgetry within you.
If you’d like to learn more about how I can support you in opening to the vast tech within, I’m excited to connect.
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I am really looking forward to being your soul companion on your journey to inner soul tech discovery!
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The mirror neurons in your brain do not know the difference between real and imagined. So, doesn’t it make more sense to spend time imagining big, amazing, wonderful, fruitful thoughts than unproductive fearful, anxious or stress creating thoughts? It’s up to you.
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